something for everyone to note.
So, almost girl knows how to play the dating game. But do you know how to create a market failure and cheat so as to lose the game with a totally irritating/boring/asshole/disgusting/OMGYOUSUCK dude who's after you?
Here are six dating behaviors guaranteed to scare men away:
1. Trash-talking your ex.
2. Paranoia runs rampant.
3. Trash-talking other women.
4. Fishing for compliments.
5. Clingy and possessive.
6. Pushing friends on him.
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i know, smsing, much less going on a date with the irritant is probably the last thing on your mind, but think about it like studying before a test and getting the grades you want!
but i can't say the same about those points, for women.
some do apply, but i think it doesn't scare off as bad.
for clingy and possessive, for males, its stated as the girl going up to hug the guy when he's talking to other women.
but if i'm talking to a dude and my guy hugs me, i think it's perfectly fine!
(unless the dude i'm talking to is bloody hot i.e. jaejoong/yunho/changmin, i think i'll like it.)
however if he lingers around there, eavesdrops and sticks in his unwanted comments, ok thats it byebye.
so you wanna know how to impress a girl?
1)It's OK to suggest a drink instead of dinner for a first date. She dreads a potentially boring, four-course ordeal, too!
2)Always
call her by early evening on Tuesday to confirm a Wednesday get-together -- it's the polite thing to do and it lets her know you're already thinking about her.
3)Be sure to leave both your home and work phone numbers. If you don't leave your home number, she might assume you have a wife or girlfriend. If you don't leave any number, she'll wonder what game you're playing.
4)If you want to keep the plans a surprise, at least
clue her in as to what to wear. You do not want an overdressed, overstressed woman navigating in high heels on a sunset beach walk.
5)Always listen to what she has to say, and make sure you wait until she's done talking before responding.
6)Don't assume that just because you're out with a beautiful woman, she knows how pretty she looks -- she wants to hear it from you. Don't go overboard, though, or she might think you're insincere.
7)Men judge women according to whether they can picture having sex with them;
women judge men by whether they can imagine kissing them. White teeth, fresh breath, great shoes, cell phone turned off, and unchapped lips make her more apt to lock lips with you that night.
8)Do not ask her, "So, what kind of music do you like?" The last 10 guys asked that. Be original and instead fill your iPod with a great mix of music that expresses your style.
9)Tip well. Believe me, she'll be watching.
10)Reading body language is simple: If she touches your arm, she's interested. If she touches your leg, she's interested tonight.
If she leans away from you the whole night, she is not interested at all.11)Very small gestures go a long way and show her you're a gentleman. When you drop her off at her house, be sure to
wait the extra 30 seconds while she gets inside (and next time you might be going in with her!).
12)Women need momentum. Without it, they lose interest or wonder if you have lost it, too.
Follow up with a phone call the next night. Even more important, ask her out at the end of the date.
Don't play games or wait.
13)
Never look at another woman when you are on a date. If she catches your wandering eye, you are done.
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haha ya la, treat it as your guidelines.
happy dating, beetches!
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